Fully aware this is an incredibly one-sided argument, I dare to say that a key reason is they charge for food and drinks. While this has become a standard practice for airlines in North America and Europe, it leaves a bad taste in the mouth of Chinese passengers. 礼/li3 or hospitality is a cornerstone of our culture. That’s why most Chinese airlines still serve food and drinks, albeit substandard. But this is exactly the point. Chinese sensibilities cherish gestures over substance.
All this crystallised during a recent flight to Hongkong. I bought heavily discounted tickets. And I expected peanuts and drinks only. But surprise! We were served semi-proper breakfast, a choice of Western and Chinese. It even ended on a sweet note with an ice cream cone. In a time when airlines charge for fuel, luggage and maybe even toilet paper, the offer of a meal is heartwarming for the passenger. How much does an economy class meal really cost? Cheap as chips. Serve meals and bill the passenger in the ticket fare since it reflects very little in the overall price anyway. But it can create far reaching customer appreciation.
My grandma, whenever someone pays her a visit would always always offer the guest to stay for a home cooked meal, without ever meaning it. And mutual tacit understanding forbids the guest to actually say yes to her hypothetic offer. But that’s called PROPER in Chinese culture.
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maxiewawa
July 29th, 2008 at 2:49 pm
The fact that you’re expected to refuse gifts is one of the most difficult things to get used to.
Jenny Zhu
July 29th, 2008 at 3:08 pm
maxiewawa,
Great seeing you in the supermarket the other day. It seems the guideline to Chinese etiquette is to go against every instinct one has.
Bill
July 29th, 2008 at 3:30 pm
I’m not sure about this. Budget airlines over here (UK) jump at any opportunity to charge you more than the ticket price (want to take a bag with you? £6, Cup of coffee? £2) and yet they are still highly successful. You even pay extra for the fuel (a surcharge).
Last time I was in China, we got a flight from Beijing to Xi’An on Hainan (I think) airlines. As we boarded the flight everyone was offered a Chinese language newspaper. I politely refused as my Chinese is nowhere near good enough to read more than a handful of characters.
As I neared the back of the plane I noticed that over the top of my seat were two copies of English language newspapers. Two newspapers, just for me, in my native language. Now that is service and it more than made up for the poor quality pickled vegetables served for dinner.
It’s the little gestures that make all the difference.
Jenny Zhu
July 29th, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Bill,
Exactly. It’s the gestures that counts.
孙鹏杰
July 29th, 2008 at 10:04 pm
No one ever informed me about the tacit rule, and here I’ve been accepting everything offered my way … oops …
Ryan
July 29th, 2008 at 11:34 pm
Definitely an interesting post Jenny. I once had a professor from Lisbon who told my class that in Portugal, at least when she was a girl, you were supposed to refuse once when someone offered you something (like food). The person would naturally insist and then you could accept. If you really didn’t want it then you would decline a second time. When she first moved to the USA and was living with a host family she was constantly missing out on treats and good food since people would usually not insist thinking that if she really wanted some she would say so the first time. Ah culture…
gswafford
July 31st, 2008 at 11:33 pm
Interesting observation between Eastern and Western airline customer service.
Indeed it has become increasingly clear that airline carriers in the United States no longer consider “customer satisfaction” as their number one priority; passengers are now treated as expendable cargo. I definitely prefer flying with most Eastern airline carriers.
As for the example of Chinese hospitality illustrated by your grandmother, I dare say (with no disrespect) that the largest majority of Westerners (American) would consider such practices as being nothing more than an empty gesture as we subscribe more to the mindset of “say what you mean and mean what you say”.
My wife and I have been married for a little more than 4 years now and we still have some cultural issues like this that arise from time to time, but having been fortunate enough to have lived in each others native countries has definitely helped us to understand one another.
bento
August 13th, 2008 at 10:46 am
it’s incredible how culture can vary widely over not so big geographic distances. Ryan’s description of his portuguese teacher perfectly fits an average brazilian, which is no surprise.
I paid a visit once to a Colombian friend of mine who was recovering from a surgery he in Brazil. He offered me a cup of jello, the only thing he could eat. I politely refused, of course, and then he complained about Brazilians never accepting a meal. How different can two neighbouring peoples be?
@Bill,
your example makes one want to go to China
Jenny Zhu
August 14th, 2008 at 1:42 am
bento,
Trust Bill on this one. The service on most Chinese airllines is rather good. But inflight entertainment is horrible.
The newest airline surcharge is Jet Blue’s $7 for blanket and pillow on some flights. Read a recent article saying that the next big move in ancillary revenue is mobile phone onboard.